My Daughter,
You are right where you are supposed to be. So many people
have theories and insights on how couples are to come together and the
truth is that many miss it by interpreting what they want rather than
what I choose. A man pursuing…a girl refusing, these are not necessarily
the optimal conditions for mate selection. Adam did not “pursue” the
Woman, nor did she spend her time creating ways to make it challenging
for him to do so. Just like one’s purpose or date of birth and death, it
is I who determines the “who, when, and where” of authentic and
spirit-led matrimony and intimacy. It is the responsibility of both
parties to follow as I, and I only lead.
You are not waiting on some man to “get his act together”
or “see you for who you really are”, and no matter how it may appear to
you in the physical realm, in the spiritual sense, “he” is right on
schedule; my schedule. You are not to be listening to what man says, no
matter what form the voice may reveal itself (media, tradition,
statistics, naysayers, etc.). Remember, I decided when it was time for
Adam to receive the miracle of female assistance and so if you have an
issue with physical time, don’t take that up with anyone other than me;
even then, know that I have your best interest at heart. Far too many of
my daughters are consuming themselves with fear and anxiety about
things that are really none of their concern. My ways are not your ways
and until I unite you with the one you are purposed to benefit, his
whereabouts and activities are not to be a priority to you. If you have
not been joined to him yet, it’s simply because it’s not the right
moment. He is not ready and neither are you. There are finishing touches
that must be placed on you both and no matter how you may feel or what
you might think, I am a God of order. I will not be pressured to move
outside of my plan.
I know it must be hard. Flesh never likes to submit to my
will. But please let me continue to mold you. Before you ever existed,
you were hand-selected for someone and that has not changed. As the
Creator, I am excited about my handiwork. Don’t go looking for answers
to questions you are not able to conceptualize or present in a way that
will intimidate me to react or respond. As I did with your parents, let
me have the pleasure of presenting you as a gift to your mate. Ask your
mother and father if they will ever forget the first time they saw your
face. I want “him” to experience a similar thrill. If you want to
channel out your energies, get excited about how excited I am about you;
about how blessed I know he will be to have you!
Again, don’t concern yourself about the time. I am
timeless. Concern yourself instead with remaining in my hands so that I
can perfect you to be all that he needs— so that when it’s the right
moment, there will be no fear, no hesitation, no question that you are
indeed the one that he is meant to live out the rest of his days on the
earth with. Far too many women are not praised on their wedding day by
their husbands in the way I would’ve liked because they did not allow me
the opportunity to complete them to be what was required, and the man
was not discerning enough to know the true purpose that his companion
was meant to serve in his life.
I want more for you. Love me enough to let me give it to
you. Just as you are to be a blessing to him, he is to be provider and
protector for you; he is to bless you as well in ways even your prayers
have yet to articulate, but in my infinite wisdom, I know you deserve.
Remember, above all else that, like faith, marriage is a
spiritual union. This is the time to remove yourself from your senses,
from what the physical is telling you and tap into your spirit. This is
when you can please me most by standing and believing that I am true to
my Word…even when you don’t see, feel or hear evidence of its
manifestation. The Spirit always moves at what you all call “light
years” ahead of the flesh. It takes it some time to catch up. (Hebrews
11:6) Be patient. (I Corinthians 13:4)
Stay in my will and I will show you the way—a way that
leads to love, bliss and happiness. A place where you will feel naked
and not ashamed…until death parts you. A place where your future husband
will restfully await you.
I love you. Be still and know. Really know. I do.
Your Heavenly Father
©Shellie R. Warren/2008
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